This website is about freedom.

This website is also about being a man, being single, and being comfortably aged and experienced. In midlife, but perhaps without the crisis.

With every label you give yourself - man, single, midlife - you unwittingly accept restrictions on who you should be; restrictions imposed upon you (unwittingly) by your upbringing, your culture, your friends and enemies, your religion (or lack of it) and your education. Each label, unconsidered and unexplored, is a limitation to your freedom to be who you want - indeed who you need to be.

So as well as being about freedom, this is a website about self-awareness, introspection, acceptance and understanding. it is about unpicking the beliefs you inherited from others from those that that help you to flourish as an individual.

You will come to learn (as I have) that pursuing freedom is a radical choice. It is a rebellion against the system, against society. It takes courage. All change is hard. All change is unsettling. It isn't something that all happens at once. For each belief you remove, you'll find another hiding below, stopping you becoming the person you've always been deep down inside. You'll fleetingly grasp freedom, only to lose it again as you take on new roles and labels which put you back where you were when you started.

Whatever happens, if you follow along, you will make a change. You may or may not find freedom: but the life you are living will increasingly be one that you have consciously chosen. And are able to change again if you are not happy with the results.

Welcome to 'Master of My Remote'

I look forward to you getting to know yourself!